Hi cuties! If you’re reading this, chances are you’re either playing around with the idea of eloping or at least a lil curious about it. And let me tell you, eloping might just be one of the most magical, stress-free decisions you’ll ever make. Let’s dive into why ditching the traditional big wedding could be the best thing for you and your fiance.
1. It’s All About You
Weddings are supposed to be about celebrating your love, right? But often than not, they become more about pleasing everyone else. When you elope, you strip away all the noise and focus on what truly matters: you and your fiance. No catering decisions, no seating charts, no family members telling you what to do, just pure, unfiltered love and commitment. It’s your day, your way and it feels so freeing.
2. Freedom and Flexibility
Planning a traditional wedding can feel like orchestrating a massive event – because it is! The logistics can be mind-boggling even with help. Eloping gives you the freedom to choose a place that’s meaningful to you both, whether it’s a secluded beach, a mountaintop, or even your own backyard. The world is literally your wedding venue, how cool is that?? Plus, you can choose any date and time without worrying about venue availability or guest schedules.
3. Save That Cash
Let’s be real – weddings are expensive. The average cost can run into the tens of thousands, which is a hefty price for a single day. Eloping can save you a ton of money, allowing you to invest in other dreams, like an epic honeymoon or trip together, a down payment on a house, nest egg for becoming parents or for your future adventures together. Why not spend your hard earned money on making memories as husband and wife instead of paying for an extravagant event?
4. Adventure Awaits
Eloping can turn your wedding into a grand adventure. Imagine exchanging vows in a breathtaking location like beneath a waterfall or along a coastline, exploring new places and finding your new favorite food, and starting your married life with an epic story. Whether you’re hiking to a secluded spot, traveling to a city you’ve always wanted to visit, or finding a charming little chapel somewhere off the beaten path, your elopement can be an unforgettable adventure that’s uniquely yours.
5. No Stress, No Drama
We all know that weddings can sometimes bring out the drama llamas. From family politics to bridal party conflicts, the stress can be overwhelming and completely turn your happiest day into your stressiest one. Eloping allows you to bypass all of that. No need to worry about who’s sitting where, dietary restrictions, or who’s going to be offended by the song choices or dance moves. It’s just you, your partner, and maybe a couple of close friends or family members if you choose to include them.
6. Authentic Moments
When it’s just the two of you (or a very small group), every moment is real and raw and emotional. You can truly be yourselves without the pressure of performing for an audience. The vows you exchange, the looks you share, touches you give, tears you brush away and the sheer joy you feel – it’s all genuine and unfiltered. THESE are the moments that you’ll cherish forever and we are here to support and capture them for you so you can have something truly unique and 1000% YOU.
Eloping isn’t for everyone, and that’s okay. But if you’re looking for a way to make your wedding day uniquely yours, to focus on what really matters, and to avoid the stress and financial strain of a big wedding, eloping might be the perfect choice for you. After all, the most important thing is that your wedding day is a true reflection of your love and commitment to each other. So why not make it an adventure you’ll never forget?
Happy planning, and here’s to your happily ever after – wherever and however you choose to celebrate it!! As soon as you decide that you’d love to elope, we would LOVE to chat with you about planning that adventure and capturing it with photos and videos for you to cherish and enjoy and share for years to come. Having us on your team will be like taking your best friends with you, we love to explore and share new things together and enjoy this beautiful earth with likeminded people! We can’t wait to meet you and join you on this amazing adventure of life and love.
xoxo, Tina
